positive Those who claim we live in a country where gender equality, wandering from side to side. At least when there are cases of sexism that are obvious, most of us realize and react (Typically: We understand you have to do a deal of housework by 50%, the same issue of charging for the same work ...). However,
cases of discrimination against women in which it is apparently benefit, and that the fund is based on treating women as inferior or weak, are going unnoticed. An example? Well, that unwritten law which, when they leave a man and a woman,
it bears all costs , or when they let
women free nightclubs. It may seem that we are given a privilege, but nothing is further from the truth: The first case is based on economic dependence
man, and the second is a claim
(If not paid, enter smaller, if they get more girls, more boys automatically entered to try to fuck it whatever the result, sales increased alcohol
. It's that simple).
This is what I call positive
machismo. More than one and a also have realized these facts. Now we go up another level of difficulty: When we find that behavior is manipulated female well
criticism that is outside the norm , either praise
that justifies .
As I mentioned the label of "whore", which seems so familiar to us, I proceed to expose the second case
The praise and applause for the woman to comply with the requirements enacted society.
not imagine better way than through an exegesis of a text that I read three years ago and thanks to Internet I have found again. He awarded to Gabriel García Márquez
, although its authorship is not entirely proven,
THE SWEET TASTE OF A WOMAN .. EXQUISITE An exquisite woman is not one that most men have their feet, if not one that has only one that really makes happy. ;
A beautiful woman is not the youngest, or thinner, or the one with smoother skin or hair more striking is that with only a frank and open smile and good advice can be happy life.
A valuable woman is not one that has more titles, no more academic positions, is that who sacrifices his sleep temporarily to make others happy.
An exquisite woman is not the most ardent (though if you ask me, all women are very hot ... Those who are out of focus are the men) but which vibrate when you only love with the man she loves.
An interesting woman is not one that is flattered to be admired for its beauty and elegance, is one strong woman of character that can say no. AND MAN .... A MAN is DELICIOUS one that values \u200b\u200ba woman like that ..... It is proud to have her as a partner ....
Who knows virtuous touch as a musician playing his beloved instrument ... Fighting by his side sharing all her roles, from washing dishes and serve Tripon, to give back massages and care she lavished upon him before ...
The truth, fellow men, is that women in that of being 'macho' We take great way ...
What fools we have been and are-when we appreciate the gift only by the sight of your package ... Tonto
thousand times foolish man who eats shit the street, having a dish exquisísimo home! " The only thing I agree is in the second paragraph, where the author's image abroad undermines
to flatter personality.
But the rest is profoundly discriminatory: It celebrates and honors a woman monogamous
taking the
love and sex as an indissoluble
(Of course, not going to have sex like a man ... !)
simplistic, without much knowledge
(Lest you think more than necessary ...) or professional ambition;
docile, servile, submissive, a vase that serves to please
, which is always in the background
and lives for her ever, that
not allowed to accept a compliment and repudiates
pleasure in itself,
unless justified by love ... A woman who lives more like a pet
or PLC
that as a person. A passive
(The man and the musician plays the instrument, but what about her? Is it limited to "vibrate" without ever taking the initiative?), Which is not an end in itself, which is always behind
and below another , like a shadow.
And a man ... A macho man and SELFISH is one that expects women to be so.
But of course, to understand this one must read between the lines, because the argument is so well disguised
that
a priori it seems it is criticizing
men , when making that is subtly
how it should be a woman , at its discretion, to be exquisite.
Such opinions, seasoned with distinguished and illustrious names, repeated a thousand times by the españolitos and deeply rooted in popular sentiment, brainwash girls and inevitably lead to the censorship
the
and ignorance repression . I already got out of the matrix
and I feel quite alone. He hoped that some of my ideas were a revelation, a track or a precursor for someone, and what happens is that people
few exceptions, rejected and disapproved my attitude. thinking I'm an outcast.